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So, I've finally met someone and we haven't had sex yet but I know he wants to and I certainly want to but we've agreed to hold off until we know each other a little better.
"I love a man that knows what he wants - someone who isn't afraid to act out his fantasies with me.
I love a man that is a gentleman when we go to dinner, but when I take him up to my apartment he rips my clothes off.
Not your ordinary routine stuff, but pretty much more extreme stuff.
Is this something I should be discussing now before we get to that point?
Even I, who consider myself very open minded, am surprised at what some people do. Most people are at least interested in the topic of kinky sex, even if it's out of their experience. You may also want to try other sites, such as Alt or Collarme. If bdsm is what you have in mind, most cities have local groups which host munches, which are get-togethers, usually at a local tavern.
That said, I think you want to start discussing it, along with sexuality in general, fairly early. You'll find the folks there friendly, supportive, and not evangelistic about their lifestyle. Talk about it before hand,you don't know what he is into until you ask.But if it doesnt seem like your cup of tea, i do suggest that you find someone else that is into it.A lot of it depends on what the relationship goals are, and how much of a deal breaker it is for you.At a certain age you just know how your body works and what it responds to and you just talk to each other about it like two grown adults, until you come to a comprise you are both comfortable with. hehe Start off with the normal stuff first - then gradually add in the 'freaky' stuff.You may actually find out he too enjoys the walk on the wild side!Guys always say they want a freak but most don't really know what a freak is, so take it easy on him at first see how far he is willing to go before you let loose on it depends how much you like this really freaky sex.